Or is it the other way around – that a nondual concept of reality conditions the very nature and experience of self-realization?
This is a very interesting question. It is true that our experiences tend to conform to our expectations and concepts. There is a well known idea in India that God appears to you in the form you expect and conceptualize. So if you are Christian, God appears to you as Christ. If you are an ISKCON memeber, God appears to you as Krishna. If you believe/conceive a formless God, God appears to you without a form. The experience of the Divine tends to conform to our concepts of the Divine. Continue reading Does the experience of self-realization or awakening naturally give rise to a nondual understanding?
You could call it a chance event. What is chance? It is something that we do not control. It is something that happens of itself. It is something that happens not due to an act of our will.
Awakening is like this. Awakening happens of itself…not due to an act of our will. Awakening is a seeing through the illusion of “me”, but what can an illusory “me” do to see through itself? Any act of will by the “me” only reinforces the illusion of a “me”. We do not control awakening or make it happen…awakening just happens of itself. Continue reading Is awakening a chance event?
You don’t have to realize the Self…you are the Self regardless. The Self is what you have always been, is, and will be. So really, what you might realize is that you are not the body/mind…this fictitious “me”. You never realize the Self. In the previous sentence, you can plainly see that “you” is the subject and “the Self” is the object and “realize” is the verb that connects the two. This never occurs. The Self is not an object…the Self is the subject. Continue reading Why do I even have to realize the Self?
Why would you be treated any differently if you are enlightened? You will not suddenly have a glowing halo around your head. Nor will light shine from your body. Nor will people be able to feel by your mere presence how enlightened you are. It is a myth that others will recognize your enlightenment and treat you any differently. Continue reading I feel like I’m enlightened, but others don’t treat me any differently. Why?
If you want seeking to cease, then don’t focus on the seeking. The seeking is just the greenery, and so go to the root. Inquire into the “me” that is seeking…the “me” who wants to stop seeking. What is this “me”? Continue reading How do we stop seeking?
I woke up in November 2005. I simply mean that a happening occurred…a realization. A kind of aha moment when the illusions of the mind are clearly and deeply seen through…in particular this idea of “me”. This is not just a mental realization, but undeniably through the whole being. I sometimes say it hits you to the core or in your bones. Continue reading What does “when I woke up”…exactly mean?
There is no path…there are no steps. How long does it take – that is a question assuming a path and steps. It assumes a process and progress. Enlightenment is not a process…it is realization…Self-realization. A realization regarding who/what you really are and seeing through the misidentification and illusions of the mind (especially those that create division). Enlightened can be described as seeing through the illusion of ego. Therefore, you can not willfully do anything to become enlightened. What can the ego do to see through itself? Any willful action (which is ego) only reinforces the apparent reality of the illusion. This is why some have called enlightenment a grace…it happens to you. Continue reading Please describe the path to enlightenment. How long does it take?
I’ve heard this question different ways and sometimes with additional information. For example, the Self is always Awake, and there is only the Self & the Self has always been free.
Let’s start with the Self is always Awake. The massive fallacy with this concept is that we experience directly that this is not the case. This is not even the case when you are dreaming at night. You are asleep in your bed and a world is created from the mind. You see other people, trees, rocks, etc. It is all from one mind. There is no other. All in the dream is only you. Continue reading Isn’t Enlightenment the realization that there is no such thing as Enlightenment?
As I define spiritual awakening, the seeing through the mirage of ego is a sudden and deep insight that can not be denied. As such, you either have had the deep, undeniable insight or you have not. There are no stages when it comes to understanding. You either understand, or you do not yet understand.
For example, you know that 1 + 1 = 2. It does not matter how much I might try to convince you that it equals 4, you will not believe me. Isn’t this so? When I show you ” 1 + 1 = ” and ask you what does it equal, you will always say 2…wouldn’t you? Could it equal anything else? Continue reading Does awakening come all at once or in stages?
It means something specific when I use the term. Spiritual awakening, Enlightenment, Self-Realization, and several other terms are all equal and point to the same happening. They all point to a radical and permanent change of our identification. Basically, we see through the mirage called “ego” and are never fooled by the mirage again.
The ego is this person in the world who has a life, will die, has problems, has accomplishments, has suffering, and has momentary happiness. The world is separate and potentially hostile – at minimum parts of it are unfriendly – towards this personal sense of self…the ego. Many see the ego as the thinker and doer in this world. Continue reading What is spiritual awakening to you?